Say it Loud & Be Proud

I was having a conversation with some old friends of mine about phony closeted people. I thank God everyday that I am not one of those people. Does this cause me grief sometimes? Yes. But I can hold my head up with dignity knowing that to mine ownself I am being true.


I am an Aggressive Bisexual Dominant Mistress.  I think the words Dominant and Mistress scare people more than anything else. I used to try to hide these facts about myself, but I deserve to be me, and they are only facets of my personality. I am also creative, I enjoy writing, and working with others. I love to help other people, and my heart suffers when I see a child suffer as I once suffered, or a woman struggling to get out of an abusive relationship, trying so hard to muster up enough courage to give the next day another shot.

There are a few who are afraid to be associated with me. A Dominant Woman scares some men and they are afraid of the implications. I say it is their loss. Everyone should be proud of whomever and whatever they are. Name it and Claim it. I am Lisa, I am a Bisexual Mistress, and I am saying it LOUD & PROUD.

Mississippi-Bigotry Kills

It was recently brought to My attention that living in Mississippi with HIV is like having a Curse.
Why you might ask? This is the United States of America, and we are after all a progressive country, and take health and safety measures to avoid epidemics, right?
Mississippi has refused federal funding for those infected with HIV which would allow them to receive Medicaid, in fact the state sued the Government to block them from giving the state funds. The state has the highest death rate amongst any other state for HIV related Deaths.
The state also refuses to educate their youth on HIV Prevention and Teen Pregnancy, instead teaching only abstinence only curriculum.
Ignorance Kills. Bigotry is Ignorance. They are Murdering People with their Ignorant Bigotry.

To Love Somebody

Love knows no boundaries and has no limitations. Love can achieve the impossible, overcome any obstacle, and will win everytime.

To love somebody means complete acceptance of that person. Yes I am speaking of Physical love, the kind of love you have for a partner. You have the ability to see beyond the physical realm, and it reaches a deep soul love. Handicaps, quirks, sexual gender in most cases of deep soul love fade away. Nothing matters but your feelings for that person. It is a beautiful thing to be able to love with no conditions.

There are people out there who try to turn this kind of love into an ugly thing, and say you don't have the right to love your partner. They are afraid. Afraid they will never be able to know what it means to find Real Love and be Complete.

Accepting yourself and others will lead to Love and Empowerment.